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Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
by Lundy Bancroft
July 28, 2024 - July 29, 2024 (read)

Bancroft, L. (2003). Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men. Berkley Books.


Berkley Books, 2003. 408 pages. Paperback. 9780425191651

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anger and conflict are not the problem
Anger and conflict are not the problem; they are …
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don’t talk about him as if he were a monster
If the abuser is the children’s father or father …
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an important contribution to enabling the abuser
Various guidelines for law enforcement personnel …
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I lose my cool sometimes
While an abused woman may sometimes approach a co…
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don’t tell yourself that it can’t possibly be true
When someone you care about is accused of abuse, …

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Part I: The Nature of Abusive Thinking: 1. The Mystery

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Part I: The Nature of Abusive Thinking: 2. The Mythology

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Part I: The Nature of Abusive Thinking: 3. The Abusive Mentality

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Part I: The Nature of Abusive Thinking: 4. The Types of Abusive Men

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Part II: The Abusive Man in Relationships: 5. How Abuse Begins

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Part II: The Abusive Man in Relationships: 6. The Abusive Man in Everyday Life

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Part II: The Abusive Man in Relationships: 7. Abusive Men and Sex

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Part II: The Abusive Man in Relationships: 8. Abusive Men and Addiction

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Part II: The Abusive Man in Relationships: 9. The Abusive Man and Breaking Up

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Part III: The Abusive Man in the World: 10. Abusive Men as Parents

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Part III: The Abusive Man in the World: 11. Abusive Men and Their Allies

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Part III: The Abusive Man in the World: 12. The Abusive Man and the Legal System

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Part IV: Changing the Abusive Man: 13. The Making of an Abusive Man

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Part IV: Changing the Abusive Man: 14. The Process of Change

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Part IV: Changing the Abusive Man: 15. Creating an Abuse-Free World

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