We’ve known each other a long time and if it’s one thing I know, it’s that you always manage to convince yourself that when you act out, you’re only hurting yourself, or are justified in hurting others as long as you suffer too. I do not think it is unfair to say you have a habit of passively consenting to miserable situations, or even baiting them out of people, so you can later weaponize your sadness. Like you’ve even joked about how you do that. I’ve seen it, the obvious glee you take in talking about how awful men have been to you, and now it looks like you’ve decided to make me one of them. I guess you believe that’s what makes you sympathetic, or you need it to lend gravitas to otherwise ordinary dissatisfaction. You want to drag people down into the mud with you. And when it backfires, because why would it not backfire, you fall back to your bunker of victimhood. It’s a good thing Cece has a sense of humor, I talked to her and she forgives you even though she didn’t have to, but she didn’t do anything to deserve this kind of treatment, and if it keeps up then I don’t know what’s gonna happen with you and me. PS for future reference, Cece is Korean, not Filipina (like how did you even land on Filipina? That’s so random). -N