I chal­lenged a po­lit­i­cal view of Andy’s, which led to an ar­gu­ment, and he said: ‘I would love you no mat­ter what your opin­ions were.’

And I know he was telling the truth. He would have loved me un­ques­tion­ingly and stub­bornly for­ever. And I don’t know if I want to be loved like that.