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at the heart of their work lies a keen regret inspo/criticism

The despair of these writers can never be as moving to a reader like me as it is to the writers themselves. At the heart of their work lies a keen regret that things are no longer as they once were between men and women, a regret so intense that it amounts to longing. It's this longing, endowed wit…

—p.148 The End of The Novel of Love Tenderhearted Men (131) by Vivian Gornick
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the distress of people unable to arrive at wisdom

In Dubus's work, sexual love is entirely instrumental. Men and women are alive to themselves and to one another only in the mythic way. They provoke in themselves the fantasy that romantic love will bring one to safe haven. They are tremendously influenced by an idea of "men" and an idea of "women"…

—p.144 Tenderhearted Men (131) by Vivian Gornick
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we feel his people trapped in their lives

Dubus's characters -- blue-collar people who live in the old mill towns not far from Boston -- are mechanics, waitresses, bartenders, and construction workers. They have almost no conversation in them, and very little sense of things beyond their own immediate needs. They drink, they smoke, they ma…

—p.141 Tenderhearted Men (131) by Vivian Gornick
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he feels compassion for women but not empathy

It is inconceivable in The Sportswriter that a person who is a woman should strike Frank simply as a familiar, as another human being floating around in the world, lost, empty, shocked to the bone by the way it's all turned out. He feels compassion for women but not empathy. At bottom, they do not …

—p.139 Tenderhearted Men (131) by Vivian Gornick
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women have always lightened my burdens

There's a novel by Richard Ford in which the narrating protagonist says, "Women have always lightened my burdens, picked up my faltering spirits and exhilarated me with the old anything-goes feeling though anything doesn't go, of course, and never did. . . . [But now] . . . I have slipped for a mom…

—p.137 Tenderhearted Men (131) by Vivian Gornick