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you’re a poor imitation of Tove Ditlevsen

‘Tove Ditlevsen,’ he says on her answering machine, ‘could cope with much more than you. You’re a poor imitation of Tove Ditlevsen,’ he says. ‘What I have done is nothing compared to what Victor Andreasen did to Tove Ditlevsen.’ The Danish author Tove Ditlevsen and Victor Andreasen, the editor-in-c…

—p.329 If Only by Vigdis Hjorth
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should she love his infidelity?

‘You may think you loved me,’ he says on her answering machine, ‘but you never loved me, you never loved me as I really am.’

Should she love his infidelity? Would hers not be a true love unless she also loved his infidelity and his need to control? Is it a weakness of her love that she can’t end…

—p.329 by Vigdis Hjorth
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you’re not fighting for our relationship

‘You’re not fighting for our relationship,’ he says on her answering machine. He had thought, perhaps he had expected her to fight, is that why he did it in the first place? To trigger her competitive instinct, to ensnare her? A rival, an undergraduate, now let’s see who ends up with Arnold Bush! D…

—p.328 by Vigdis Hjorth
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acknowledge your loss and mourn it

An avalanche has started where she is. She is caught up in an avalanche.

It is over. From now on it is a question of getting through it. Exist in it and survive. Rest, at times she finds it impossible to get up. Trust those who say that it will pass. It is impossible to believe, but some people …

—p.325 by Vigdis Hjorth
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only one remedy would do

This is the end. There is no mistaking it. But I’m not going to milk it, wallow in it, it bores me already, it seems so infantile, so banal, that even the pain it caused seems infantile, banal, embarrassing, a source of shame; with the little bit of common sense still active in her brain Ida realis…

—p.322 by Vigdis Hjorth