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men withhold their commitment because

There are some popular explanations for this state of affairs. The most conspicuous one is that men have deficient psyches and lack the basic capacity for monogamous connectedness, for psychological or evolutionary reasons. Their psychological, biological, and evolutionary makeup makes them prone t…

—p.69 Why Love Hurts: A Sociological Explanation Commitment Phobia and the New Architecture of Romantic Choice (59) by Eva Illouz
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choose between a “socially appropriate” and a “sexy” person

Third, because there are no more formal mechanisms by which to pair people up, individuals internalize the economic dispositions that also help them make choices which must be at once economic and emotional, rational and irrational. The romantic habitus has thus the characteristic of operating at o…

—p.53 The Great Transformation of Love or the Emergence of Marriage Markets (18) by Eva Illouz
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consumer culture put desire at the center

Undoubtedly, along with the feminist and bohemian claims to sexual freedom, consumer culture has been the most significant cultural force that has contributed to the sexualization of women, and later of men. Writing about the 1920s, John d’Emilio and Estelle Freedman argue that “American capitalism…

—p.42 The Great Transformation of Love or the Emergence of Marriage Markets (18) by Eva Illouz
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the “great transformation” of love

Let me make a bold suggestion: the transformation undergone by romantic choices is akin to the process that Karl Polanyi has described for economic relationships and that he dubbed the “great transformation.”57 The “great transformation” of economic relations refers to the process by which the capi…

—p.41 The Great Transformation of Love or the Emergence of Marriage Markets (18) by Eva Illouz
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her responsibility to maintain his own sense of adequacy

[...] Thus, another noticeable difference with modern sensibility is that this woman does not think it proper to communicate her inner authentic feelings. On the contrary, to be adequate is to be able to hide these feelings and to disguise them under an appearance of cheerfulness. Being able to pl…

—p.38 The Great Transformation of Love or the Emergence of Marriage Markets (18) by Eva Illouz