From the paradox of liberation to the demise of liberal elites

by Eva Illouz

mostly about Israel but the conclusion is good and general

1. Introduction: The Misery of Love

2. The Great Transformation of Love or the Emergence of Marriage Markets

3. Commitment Phobia and the New Architecture of Romantic Choice

4. The Demand for Recognition Love and the Vulnerability of the Self

5. Love, Reason, Irony

6. From Romantic Fantasy to Disappointment

7. Epilogue