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what do we do about the terrible people we love?

We’ve all loved terrible people. How do I know this? Because I know people, and people are terrible. Sam went to the real problem at the heart of everything: the problem of human love. The aesthetic and ethical issues presented by men from Caravaggio to Michael Jackson are a kind of parable for thi…

—p.255 Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma THE BELOVEDS (243) by Claire Dederer
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the way you consume art

In other words: There is not some correct answer. You are not responsible for finding it. Your feeling of responsibility is a shibboleth, a reinforcement of your tragically limited role as a consumer. There is no authority and there should be no authority. You are off the hook. You are inconsistent…

—p.242 DRUNKS (225) by Claire Dederer
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see things from the monster’s point of view

Recovery, as a way of living, makes you see things from the monster’s point of view. You see things from his point of view because you are him. You sit in the rooms and listen and you hear terrible, terrible things, but they are also ordinary things. Because everyone in that room has been through t…

—p.235 DRUNKS (225) by Claire Dederer
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more than the worst thing we’ve ever done

All those years I had chimed to Raymond Carver as a Pacific Northwest writer, as my Pacific Northwest writer, there was something else I recognized as well: the lost man, the drunk man. I was him. I loved him most when I was in my twenties, my party-drinking era—when once every year or so, or maybe…

—p.234 DRUNKS (225) by Claire Dederer
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the possibility of connection is what the story is about

However: Carver, in the grip of happiness, no longer sounded quite like that. Compare the sheer dizzying sad-sackery of “Why Don’t You Dance?” to the sense of communion that can be found in Carver’s next story collection, Cathedral. The book is still terse, still concerned with working-class people…

—p.230 DRUNKS (225) by Claire Dederer