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we already spoke the same language

I said before that jamming with those mystery musicians in Asheville was like conversation, like talking. This is because, though we were strangers and hadn’t met before, we already spoke the same language, to the point of being able to comfortably improvise and embellish upon each other’s uses of …

—p.76 Hanging Out: The Radical Power of Killing Time Jamming as Hanging Out (59) by Sheila Liming
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delighting in a shared project

On it went. We’d seen no cars approach and had no idea where they came from, these improvisatory ghosts. They sprang up out of the night, armed with a knowledge of our chords and our songs or, at least, enough skill to quickly piece it all together and join right in. I played a Gillian Welch song. …

—p.72 Jamming as Hanging Out (59) by Sheila Liming
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splashy, summery, musical mayhem

We weren’t famous, but we were popular, at least in a limited, local sense. That meant we had connections. We hosted bands when they came through town and then asked and received the same favors, in turn. Each summer, we toured south to Asheville, North Carolina—Big Rock Candy Mountain as we called…

—p.71 Jamming as Hanging Out (59) by Sheila Liming
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shared quest for meaning

I owe much of what I’ve come to know about hanging out to both of my Pittsburgh bands, but especially to The Armadillos. It was with them that I gained, or perhaps gave myself, permission to revel in the kind of shared quest for meaning that is the privileged domain of youth. In the other band, the…

—p.63 Jamming as Hanging Out (59) by Sheila Liming
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being alone in someone else’s vacant apartment

The novelist Rick Moody says in his wonderful Hotels of North America that blank spaces like hotel rooms—or, in my case, a friend’s apartment in a foreign city—help us to “see the horizon, even if there is no land to be witnessed there.” They promote introspection and mental adjustment, which is ma…

—p.43 Hanging Out With Strangers (33) by Sheila Liming