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emotional literacy

Facetious critiques of the theory and its resulting law expressed concern that enthusiastic consent would make sex artificial and sterile, requiring awkward checklists. Others gave the false impression that fishing for one “yes” and moving on was good enough, rather than interpreting consent as a f…

—p.106 Bad Sex: Truth, Pleasure, and an Unfinished Revolution The Vulnerability Paradox (83) by Nona Willis Aronowitz
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it wasn’t just sex but forbidden sex

I thought back to the best sex I’d had in recent memory: the topaz pellet, my sweaty face on Rob’s couch, limbs tied up, lava lake of desire completely exposed. I was so disarmed, so trusting. That wasn’t the kind of sex you had with a one-night stand. Despite our best efforts, Rob and I had failed…

—p.87 The Vulnerability Paradox (83) by Nona Willis Aronowitz