What is the situation? You might be having thoughts about something that just happened in the environment or something that happened inside of you (an intense emotion, a painful sensation, an image, a daydream, a flashback, or a stream of thoughts—e.g., thinking about my future). I got a parking ticket.
• What am I thinking or imagining? I’m so stupid.
• What is the cognitive distortion? (optional) Labeling, overgeneralizing
• What makes me think the thought is true? I shouldn’t have lost track of time.
• What makes me think the thought is not true or not completely true? Other people get parking tickets. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re stupid.
• What’s another way to look at this? I just made a mistake.
• If the worst happens, what could I do then? Just keep paying parking tickets, but it would be better to set an alarm on my phone so it doesn’t happen again.
• What’s the best that could happen? I’ll never get a parking ticket again.
• What will probably happen? I could get another ticket, but I’ll probably remember what happened this time and make sure I don’t.
• What will happen if I keep telling myself the same thought? I’ll keep being upset with myself.
• What could happen if I changed my thinking? I’d feel better.
• What would I tell my friend or family member [think of a specific person] Gabe if this happened to him or her? It’s not that big a deal. So you forgot and made a mistake. You know how to avoid doing this in the future.
• What would be good to do now? Get my mind off of this. Go for a walk.
this is actually great
What is the situation? You might be having thoughts about something that just happened in the environment or something that happened inside of you (an intense emotion, a painful sensation, an image, a daydream, a flashback, or a stream of thoughts—e.g., thinking about my future). I got a parking ticket.
• What am I thinking or imagining? I’m so stupid.
• What is the cognitive distortion? (optional) Labeling, overgeneralizing
• What makes me think the thought is true? I shouldn’t have lost track of time.
• What makes me think the thought is not true or not completely true? Other people get parking tickets. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re stupid.
• What’s another way to look at this? I just made a mistake.
• If the worst happens, what could I do then? Just keep paying parking tickets, but it would be better to set an alarm on my phone so it doesn’t happen again.
• What’s the best that could happen? I’ll never get a parking ticket again.
• What will probably happen? I could get another ticket, but I’ll probably remember what happened this time and make sure I don’t.
• What will happen if I keep telling myself the same thought? I’ll keep being upset with myself.
• What could happen if I changed my thinking? I’d feel better.
• What would I tell my friend or family member [think of a specific person] Gabe if this happened to him or her? It’s not that big a deal. So you forgot and made a mistake. You know how to avoid doing this in the future.
• What would be good to do now? Get my mind off of this. Go for a walk.
this is actually great