I want to say again: The best way not to remember the evil that has been done to you is to forget it as quickly as possible. Don’t keep a mental list and keep reminding yourself of the things that have been done to you, or you will never get over them. God forgives and forgets our sins, which is what we should do in our dealings with one another. Another helpful strategy is to believe the best, instead of the worst, about people in every situation.