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those for whom “competitiveness” seemed a distant problem

Lyons and IDEO’s design-driven project aimed to solve the alleged problem of insufficient “competitiveness.” That problem, as stated — and the changes Gainesville instituted to address it, including beautiful graphic design, better web resources, and that friendly new office called the Department o…

—p.201 n+1 Issue 35: Savior Complex On design thinking (190) by Maggie Gram
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my mind, temporarily, unmerges

MY DAD TELLS A STORY about my mom. They were swimming together in Lake Michigan, after the sun had just set, so there were no lifeguards, and they could swim out to the buoys that marked the end of the sandbar. My mom swam out ahead of him, and then stopped swimming forward, treading water, far pas…

—p.175 Holding Patterns (165) by Alice Abraham
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neither of us brought marriage up. topic/heartbreak

A couple’s ambivalence can be held between two people: we both feel a little of each side, but one person is yes, and the other one no. When we first started dating, we said, We’ll date for a long time, and then we started on that long time right away. Back then, we thought maybe we would get marri…

—p.169 Holding Patterns (165) by Alice Abraham
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neither of us brought marriage up. topic/heartbreak

A couple’s ambivalence can be held between two people: we both feel a little of each side, but one person is yes, and the other one no. When we first started dating, we said, We’ll date for a long time, and then we started on that long time right away. Back then, we thought maybe we would get marri…

—p.169 Holding Patterns (165) by Alice Abraham
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it’s not personal enough for any of them

I want to demonstrate it for you more clearly. We’re sitting in the restaurant, and I have an air of sad expectation. I revert to silence, which is the most basic form of agreement, of disallowing any distance to emerge between the two of us. Oliver tells me he’s thinking about quitting a group he’…

—p.168 Holding Patterns (165) by Alice Abraham