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the old pleasures were gone project/panopticon

FOR MOST normal folks, drinking means conviviality, companionship and colorful imagination. It means release from care, boredom and worry. It is joyous intimacy with friends and a feeling that life is good. But not so with us in those last days of heavy drinking. The old pleasures were gone. They w…

—p.151 Alcoholics Anonymous 11. A VISION FOR YOU (151) by Alcoholics Anonymous
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we know there are difficult wives and families

Since the home has suffered more than anything else, it is well that a man exert himself there. He is not likely to get far in any direction if he fails to show unselfishness and love under his own roof. We know there are difficult wives and families, but the man who is getting over alcoholism must…

—p.127 9. THE FAMILY AFTERWARD (122) by Alcoholics Anonymous
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his recovery is not depen­dent upon people

Let no alcoholic say he cannot recover unless he has his family back. This just isn’t so. In some cases the wife will never come back for one reason or another. Remind the prospect that his recovery is not depen­dent upon people. It is dependent upon his relationship with God. We have seen men get …

—p.99 7. WORKING WITH OTHERS (89) by Alcoholics Anonymous
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we constructively review our day

When we retire at night, we constructively review our day. Were we resentful, selfish, dishonest or afraid? Do we owe an apology? Have we kept something to ourselves which should be discussed with ­another person at once? Were we kind and loving toward all? What could we have done better? Were we t…

—p.86 6. INTO ACTION (72) by Alcoholics Anonymous
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the spiritual life is not a theory

The spiritual life is not a theory. We have to live it. Unless one’s family expresses a desire to live upon spiritual principles we think we ought not to urge them. We should not talk incessantly to them about spiritual matters. They will change in time. Our behavior will convince them more than …

—p.83 6. INTO ACTION (72) by Alcoholics Anonymous