I want to feel calm. I want a signature scent. I want to be the kind of woman who whips up a galette. I want to enjoy stretching. I want to mean it when I tell someone, ‘no worries’. I want to be good at sports or at least a good sport. I want a partner who thinks my best qualities are the Real Me and my worst qualities are manageable. I don’t want to date someone who thinks I’m only okay. I want to love easily. I want to be gentler. I don’t want to drink so much. I want to be open and nonjudgemental and warm. I want to look pretty with my hair wet