"There's this imperative to keep secrets, and the imperative to have them known. How do you know that you're a person, distinct from other people? By keeping certain things to yourself. You guard them inside you, because, if you don't, there's no distinction between inside and outside. Secrets are the way you know you even have an inside. A radical exhibitionist is a person who has forfeited his identity. But identity in a vacuum is also meaningless. Sooner or later, the inside of you you needs a witness. Otherwise you're just a cow, a cat, a stone, a thing in the world, trapped in your thingness. To think an identity you have to believe that other identities equally exist. You need closeness with other people. And how is closeness built? By sharing secrets. [...]"